Dating & relocation coaching · Mexico City

Build a real life in Mexico City, and a dating life to match.

Not a travel vlog. Intensive coaching for high-performing men: learn to approach and connect with confidence, text so you actually get the date, and skip the months of figuring out life here on your own.

In person in CDMX or online · 5 days a week · Unlimited text support

Joel, founder of Mexpat Dating

What you'll get

Four things most guys take years to piece together.

01

Approach with confidence

Live cold approach sessions in the city. Learn how to start conversations with Mexican women naturally, and build skills you can take anywhere in the world.

Every approach is audio-recorded. We listen back right after, so you get instant, specific feedback on what you actually said. Growth comes from awareness of your mistakes, but also what you’re already doing well.

02

Online dating, set up to win

We start before you even land. I'll review your photos, help you clean up your Instagram, and get your dating profiles ready so the matches start coming in early.

Matches that turn into dates. I'll help you set up dates through the apps using what actually works in Mexico City, so your matches don't just sit in your inbox.

03

Texting that gets dates

Stop getting ghosted. We go through your real conversations so the number you got turns into an actual date.

24/7 text support. Message me around the clock for help with texting so you don't miss out on a single date opportunity with the women you meet.

04

Living in CDMX, sorted

Best neighborhoods to live in, where to shop, residency, trusted Spanish coaches, a realtor if you want to rent. All the small nuances that take months to figure out alone.

Years of resource collecting, a text away. Any and all things you need to comfortably live here, I have you covered. You won't leave Mexico City wondering, “Now what?”

Client results

Don't take our word for it. Hear it from them.

More on YouTube →

How I helped a client conquer his approach anxiety

How to stop feeling regret around women

How to stop coming off needy during cold approach

Client cold approach in Mexico City (raw)

Live infield

Watch me do it. Unscripted, on the street.

Full channel →

4 secrets to flirting without pedestalizing her (live demo)

How to never run out of things to say with women

Why Mexico City is the best city to cold approach

Programs

Pick your bootcamp.

Every program runs 5 days a week, either in person on the streets of Mexico City or online with daily calls. Unlimited text support is included the whole way through.

Full immersion

4-Week Bootcamp

4 weeks · 5 days a week

  • Live cold approach sessions in CDMX, or daily online calls
  • Every in-person approach audio-recorded for instant feedback
  • Online dating setup: photos, profiles & Instagram
  • Texting review so you stop getting ghosted
  • Unlimited text support
  • Living-in-Mexico guidance & introductions
Book a call to apply

Build momentum

3-Week Bootcamp

3 weeks · 5 days a week

  • Live cold approach sessions in CDMX, or daily online calls
  • Every in-person approach audio-recorded for instant feedback
  • Online dating setup: photos, profiles & Instagram
  • Texting review so you stop getting ghosted
  • Unlimited text support
  • Living-in-Mexico guidance & introductions
Book a call to apply

Kickstart

2-Week Bootcamp

2 weeks · 5 days a week

  • Live cold approach sessions in CDMX, or daily online calls
  • Every in-person approach audio-recorded for instant feedback
  • Online dating setup: photos, profiles & Instagram
  • Texting review so you stop getting ghosted
  • Unlimited text support
  • Living-in-Mexico guidance & introductions
Book a call to apply

Not sure which length fits? That's what the call is for.

Beyond dating

Your shortcut to actually living here.

The dating skills get you out the door. This is what makes Mexico City feel like home instead of an extended vacation.

Best places to live

Which neighborhoods fit your lifestyle.

Where to shop

Groceries, clothes, the everyday stuff.

Residency

Guidance on the process from someone who's been through it.

Spanish coaches

Introductions to teachers we trust.

A realtor

If you want to rent, a contact who knows the market.

The little nuances

Everything that takes months or years to learn alone.

How it works

From first call to first week.

Step 1

Book a call

Tell us where you're at and what you want out of Mexico City.

Step 2

Choose your program

2, 3 or 4 weeks, in person or online.

Step 3

Go to work

Five days a week of coaching, with text support in between.

Joel and his girlfriend by the water with a city skyline behind them

Your coach

Hi, I'm Joel.

I grew up in Wisconsin and was a virgin until 27. At some point I decided something had to change, so I set out to master cold approach. That journey took me to Poland, and eventually to Mexico City, where I've lived for the past three years.

Close to 1,800 approaches later, I'm in a loving relationship of a year and a half. Since then I've helped dozens of guys go from barely getting dates and intense approach anxiety to finding girlfriends, building a rotation, and knowing they can talk to women anytime, anyplace.

~1,800

approaches done

3 yrs

living in CDMX

Dozens

of clients coached

Watch my storyWhat I learned dating in Mexico: from 1 date a month to 5 dates a week

Questions

Do I need to be in Mexico City?

No. Coaching is in person in CDMX with live cold approach sessions, or online with daily calls. Both include unlimited text support. However, I do recommend coming to Mexico City if possible for the best in person experience.

Do I need to speak Spanish?

No, as long as you can download Google Translate or DeepL (my recommendation), you'll be good to go. I also have a Spanish teacher I'll refer you to if you decide to live here and/or just want to learn Spanish.

Will this only work in Mexico?

The focus is Mexico City, but the approach and texting skills are ones you can take anywhere.

Ready to make Mexico City home?

Book a call and we'll figure out which program fits you.